CULTURAL NORMS: Why Do We Do Things The Way We Do?

Have you ever caught yourself doing something just because "that's the way it's done"? From the way we greet each other to what we find polite or rude, cultural norms subtly but powerfully influence our daily behaviours. These invisible "rules" shape our lives, often without us even realizing it.

Imagine you're at a dinner party. If you're in Italy, you'd be encouraged to talk passionately and make bold gestures over the meal. In Japan, silence might be more appreciated, as speaking loudly could be seen as disruptive. Each cultural setting whispers a different script, guiding us on how to act. And it doesn’t stop with greetings or table manners. Cultural norms affect how we express emotions, view time, define success, and even approach relationships.

Psychologically, these norms give us a sense of identity and belonging, aligning our actions with a larger community. But they can also create internal conflict, especially in multicultural settings. For example, if your cultural background values collectivism and harmony, you might find it challenging to work in an environment that praises individual achievements and self-promotion.

Interestingly, questioning cultural norms can unlock personal growth and self-awareness. Think about those moments when you find yourself saying, "Why do we do things this way?" That's often the beginning of understanding the powerful grip of culture on our minds. Reflecting on these norms allows us to decide what truly aligns with our personal values and to live more intentionally.

The next time you hesitate before shaking someone’s hand or feel uncertain about how to behave in a new setting, take a moment to think about the cultural norms at play. You might just uncover something fascinating about yourself and the world around you.